A friend is suffering because she was blindsided in her marriage by a psychopathic husband.  It reminded me of lots of jewels that appear when things seem the darkest.  One is that it’s always better to be a trusting loving soul than to dwell in a dark cave of mistrust.  People who have tender loving feelings can be hurt and the heart is an amazing healer.  It’s true “What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger”.  We get through those difficult times with more information and more compassion for all the other folks who have gone through heartbreaks.  That enlarges our capacity to love and understand.